One
of the first arguments I had after I got married was about housework. I didn’t
like doing it much, and my former husband said he didn’t want to do it either.
About
40 percent of couples said they fight more about messes than money in a survey
by ShopSmart magazine, a publication of Consumer Reports.
“Our
poll found that men and women have different opinions about being organized and
dealing with clutter,” Lisa Lee Freeman, editor-in-chief of ShopSmart, said in
a statement.
When
it comes to common tasks including driving, watching TV, or remembering
birthdays and appointments, returning items to their proper place is the top
point of contention between men and women. ShopSmart’s poll found that
when it comes to putting things away properly, women were a lot more likely to
report being different from their partner, 69 percent, than men, 51
percent.
As
to who’s the messiest in their relationship, 26 percent of women in the survey
admitted that they were the messier partner compared to 39 percent of men who
claimed to be.
ShopSmart’s
poll also reported on what people do when their partner leaves stuff out of
place:
- 67 percent said they put the items away or
cleaned them up themselves.
- 21 percent ask their spouse or partner to
straighten up.
- 19 percent leave things as is until their
partner puts them away.
- Women are twice as likely as men to dump messy
or out-of-place items into their spouse or partner’s personal space.
In
the survey, most men and women agreed on the two things that drive them crazy
when they’re out of place: keys and bills.
The
March 2013 issue of ShopSmart offers a report on organizing and more survey
results from its national poll of about 500 couples about their attitudes
toward household clutter.
For
more information, visit www.shopsmartmag.org.
Rita,
I like your post about how people handle clutter and messy houses. Well, I’m not so good at putting things away, so I’m usually on the receiving end of the complaining. Fortunately, my current husband was trained very well by his first wife. And, he is more likely to just pick things up and put them away than to b*tch and moan. However, keys and bills ARE an issue… and I hear about those two things even when I haven’t touched either of them. Cool study.